Can you make her your wife?
In a relationship, the world shouldn’t revolve only around a woman and not the man, right? Men deserve to be pampered as well, in my opinion. Men need great mental health. And their physical health should be intact as well. If a woman wants everything to be about her, how can a man perform at his best when it comes to taking care of his woman?
All she talks about is what her man can do for her and never thinks about what she can do for him. In my opinion, that can’t be a healthy relationship. Does she love him or love him for what he is doing for her?
Mental Health
If you’ve been taking care of her from the beginning in every way (bills, dinner, grooming, doctor’s bills, etc.). What’s going to happen when you fail to deliver as usual?
There are a few brain-wrecking worries men have to overcome with women who expect their man to do everything for them.
- Arguments – those nasty arguments regarding their needs that aren’t being fulfilled. The famous quote that selfish women use on their man that gets us every time: “You are supposed to be my man”. Whenever you’re lacking on a bill. They can add name-calling to the mix: you’re a loser, you’re a bum, you’re a nobody.
These frequent arguments can take a toll on a man, causing great stress and pressure. This treatment can break a man down after a while, causing him to weaken. And then, there’s even more lack in providing for your woman as a man. The more the man lacks, the worse the treatment from a selfish woman could get.
Plain and simple response. A woman must stick by her man’s side and support him through his rough patches. Instead of attacking him with insults, caress him with encouragement.
She should’ve picked up on all of the support and encouragement you’ve given her. In other words, she should’ve learned from how you’ve been treating her. She just has to want to do it. If she loves you, it shouldn’t be a problem to help you get through your rough patch until she can start getting pampered the way she used to.
Physical Health
The intensity of trying to live up to the standards set at the beginning of the relationship as a man can be extreme. If she’s down the man’s throat about her standards or just nagging about new, unfortunate living conditions, this in fact is stressful and not just on his mind.
Stress can affect your muscle tension. It can cause sleep disturbances. And cause headaches.
What are some things that the man can use to get his physical health in order while either dealing with the stress of not living up to the hype or the pressure of his dissatisfied girlfriend/wife, or just sustaining her arguments?
- Go to the gym – it’s even healthier when your girlfriend/wife encourages you to go or even goes with you. Just being in the gym without her needing something at that time is a feeling that is as physically healthy as the results of a workout plan.
- Massages – not only getting a massage from your woman, but her offering it is a relief. Instead of you having to ask, she just knows you need it after a long or stressful day. This definitely can make a man feel wanted and appreciated. A massage can definitely make a man feel looser in the muscles and take out those stress knots.
- A home-cooked meal – if she cooks a full-course healthy meal, this can help the man build the muscles and maintain healthy organs, so that he can be the best man for her. If she’s lacking in whatever she needs, she can increase her chances of getting what she wants by feeding her man good quality food.
A woman will talk all about herself and expect to get by in a relationship by being selfish. Whatever you allow your woman to get away with, she will continue to expect to get away with it. At the beginning of a relationship, you have to know what you want and know the possibilities of the future.
If she expects you to do everything in the relationship, expect to possibly lack, especially if it’s a long-term relationship. In this instance of preparation, you would want your girl to bring in some sort of income. Or perhaps, limit your spending and gradually spend to make your money stretch further.
If you’re afraid to lose her in any way, and you may not live up to her standards, be the bigger adult and let her go. Why buy a house, car, or boat that you can’t afford, only to be homeless later on? This is the same with a woman.
A man is supposed to be the provider to his woman, yes. However, sometimes the load of a man can get quite heavy. And when he cannot live up to a usual standard, a nagging woman can be a dangerous woman.
Our health, both physically and mentally, is at stake if our woman is above nurturing us. If she can give us a massage, encourage us to strengthen ourselves, fix us healthy full-course meals while refraining from arguing about our inabilities, then we can figure out the requirements pf getting back to taking care of the standards of our women.